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Being honest is arguable the most important trait in a persons character. If they are not willing to tell you the whole truth, there is no reason to trust them. Being honest is the "maker or braker" in a relationship (of any kind). If you can't be honest, you either don't trust yourself, or however you are liaing to. Now I really hate that word; "
liar" when being serous is one of the worst insults I think a person can get. That doesn't mean that as soon as you say something that isn't true, you should be labeled a liar. No, that's not what I'm saying, but if you tell a lie, and don't fess up to it, and keep doing it, over and over again, then you are a liar. When it is really a problem is when you tell the same lie over and over again until you believe it yourself. We all have to do with lies and people who tell them, but it is up to us if we want to stick around that person or not. I really don't like when people lie to me, or at all for that matter, but when they start telling bald face lies straight to my face, really makes me mad. Now, I know that I need to not just be mad at that person for the rest of my life, but remove my self. I would ask you to do the same, no only for your own personal health, but for the other person. When I say "for your own personal health" I'm saying that it isn't good for you to be around people who don't tell the truth, and it is doing damage to you, because you are learning to get used to it, and it not be a problem anymore. The biggest thing that I'm trying to say is please, please, PLEASE, be honest with the people you are around, as well as with yourself. It's important, and you will be happier in the end...Trust me!!!
Today I told you guys what I think about what you should do in a situation with a person who doesn't tell the truth, it isn't
the opinion it's an opinion, and if you think differently, right on!
This is a Ted Talk on lying, it's about 18 minutes long, but if you have time I would strongly suggest to listen to it.
https://www.ted.com/talks/jeff_hancock_3_types_of_digital_lies?language=en
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