Everyone, no matter how old they are, has seen at least a few things that happened to them that they need to let go of and quit being mad about. Whether it is a person who hurt you emotionally talking about you spreading false information about you, or it is someone who hurt you physically, or even if you are mad at yourself for screwing something up. You have to let that go. Now I'm not by any means saying that it doesn't hurt when someone is spreading false information about you or if you get hurt physically, but you can't hold a grudge because that will end up controlling you until you let it go. Staying mad only makes you more miserable. You may think that it makes you feel better to try and get revenge on someone and be as mean to them as they were to you but in reality if their conscience is not bothering them, nothing you do can make them feel bad about what they did. Even if their conscience isn't clean you can't make them change. So what I'm trying to say here is if you have anything that you need to let go of just do yourself a big favor and move forward!!! Let it go!
I know this was kind of a short post, but there isn't much else to say. If you don't let the stuff that is bothering you go, it will control you. That's just the truth.
If you have something that you are mad about, and it is controlling you, there is a trick that really works. You need to write down what you are mad about, and get it all out onto a piece of paper, or you can type, but I like paper better, plus it's more dramatic! After you have everything written down, if you wrote it on paper, you can go and burn it. Throw it in the fire never to be seen again, and it helps. If you typed it, you can grab the file and move it to the trash can, after that, delete it from the trash and it will be gone forever.
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