Why are we scared?
We are scared because change is filled with uncertainty, and as human beings, we want to know what is going on, and what will happen next. I'm sure you have heard the quotes and read the picture sayings that talk about change. Most of them say that change is sometimes needed for the better, and we shouldn't try and keep everything the same. "If nothing ever changed there would be not butterflies." This is a very well known quote, but go back and reread it. Really let sink in. If nothing ever changed there wouldn't be a chance for new and better things to happen. So, if you know something is about to change for you, whether it is in a job situation, school situation, relationships, life, etc.
I challenge you to go into this change with an open mind and know that even though tough things happen during change, but good things do come out of it. When it's all said and done, you will rarely regret the times that you went into a situation that you knew was going to change, and you still kept an open mind.
It's okay for something to change, whether it is your situation, your teachers and staff at your school, whatever it is, it is okay. Some things need to change, and that is okay also. Don't be scared of what could go wrong. Try being positive. Surely when something changes it can't all be bad. There has to be some good in everything. If you go into every situation (this is hard, and takes conscious work every time) with an open mind, and looking for positive outcomes, not only will you be a happier person, you will make a lasting impression on others as a happy, and fun person.
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